By Steve Horan
Ask a group of coaches to identify their coaching challenges, and parent relations will probably show up on the list. Ask a group of parents to identify their concerns about their kids in sports, and the issue of coaching is just as likely to be listed. Parent / coach relationships are important because they can have a powerful impact on the positive development and performance of individual athletes and teams. Individuals and teams are much more likely to thrive when there is a positive culture of parent / coach relations.
One way to strengthen parent / coach relations is to seek understanding of what parents expect from coaches. Candace Barton and Craig Schwartz of Montana State University conducted a combination literature review and parent survey to identify key expectations of parents for coaches. They found the three things parents value most include:
- fairness and honesty in dealing with athletes
- commitment to the development of sportsmanship, and
- ability to teach well.
The researchers also found the three things parents value least include:
- commitment to winning
- improving a player’s chances to play at a higher level, and
- experience as a player.
Parents also shared important insights about how they evaluate the quality of communication and teaching by coaches.
The study results provided important information for parents and coaches who aim to create the best possible environment for positive development of young athletes. As a practical measure, it is a good idea for coaches to work hard at proactively communicating with parents about their coaching philosophy, views on sportsmanship, teaching methods, competitive goals, thoughts on athlete development, etc. This will allow parents to make informed judgments about whether the program is right for their child.
Coaches are also encouraged to invite parents to bring any significant concerns about their child's development to the attention of the coach. This creates a culture of trust in which most issues can be effectively addressed with a good faith commitment to the good of the athlete from both parent and coach.
Read a full summary of the study here...